waiting to understand

Out of fear we compromise our boundaries concerning other people. Afraid that if we stand up for what we believe in and want out of life that there is a risk involved that we may offend or push away that they make not like us and leave and so we learn to compromise ourselves our values we morph and change to suit others to gain love and acceptance from them and seise to be genuine to ourselves, to who God designed us to be The irony is that doing so is the opposite of love and the opposite of who we are it is a diluted version of who we were meant to be just so that we can KEEP something or someone, when what they were attracted to in the first place was this woman of conviction this woman who knew what she wanted and where she was going this woman who knew what she believed in and stood for Your passion is what drew them so do not throw water on your own fire thinking that you will please someone at a sacrifice to yourself sure compromise is important but i...

Adaptability, sustainability, go with the flow it would be awesome if you could keep an open mind forgiveness is necessary be ready to pivot like on the volley ball court crouched down low hands out in front of you on the balls of your feet anticipating anything If I was only prepared to do a spike over the net then I wouldn't be ready for a dig wouldn't be ready for a save close to the floor If I only intended to set the ball then I wouldn't bump it over to save the game Be ready for ANYTHING Life is about ADAPTING to it be willing to morph Life is a conveyor belt of endless possibility made up of complex human beings with an infinite scenario of adventures waiting to play out based on the dynamic at the time based on the moods and the whims of others based on their stability or instability or their grace and forgiveness based on where they are and how they are today where you are, how you are.... All interwoven to create a moment that you walk into and imprint ...